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They’re Playing with Fire
February 27, 2010 | Leave a Comment
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IMDB rating: 4.50 Plot: During the opening sequences, a college student is seduced by his college professor. After that, it is disclosed that her husband has concocted a devilish scheme to steal millions from an inheritance fund run by his dotty grandmother and totally nasty mother. However, all of that is cast aside for the goings-on of a masked lunatic who is slaughtering the cast in best Jason style. |
Actors: Brown Eric,Prine Andrew,Clemens Paul,Bicknell Gene,Ayers Curt,Brascia Dominick,Conklin Bill,Kaye Greg,Moore Alvy,Portaro Joe,Crime,Thriller,
Seriously can somebody please give me some bold ADVICE?
I am sorry this is a bit long, but theres so much more to the story but heres a bit of it.
My boyfriends brothers girlfriend was my friend at one time. We partied, smoked weed, got in trouble together. Then I met her boyfriends brother and we connected right away, fell in love. It was a different type of love than what my old friend has with my boyfriends brother. I didn’t feel the need for drugs anymore, or "partying" I felt the need to grow and be happy with who I am with still my wonderful boyfriend. My old friend however enables drugs and alcohol in her boyfriends life and they fight and they make up, cheating has occurred with them as well – so It’s just drama! and I didn’t settle for it. I however changed for the better and so did my boyfriend and now everybody thinks it’s the end of the world that he has a new job and gets paid more & he doesn’t smoke weed or barely drink anymore. I somehow am the badguy? and I’m manipulating just because I don’t want to hang around them anymore now that I see it all for what it is – and it’s now my type of thing to do anymore is sit around and watch people smoke dope and talk sh*t & drink.
I’ve brought more fun and "Natural" times into my boyfriends life. We went swimming in the ocean with the big waves, we’ve went for hikes near the river. He taught me how to drive. We’ve watched the meator shower, we’ve had fires on the beach and roasted marshmellows. I took him to a lake I used to go when I was little girl ; to a cliff I used to always climb. I’ve played videogames with him all night and read books together outloud with him.
& through all those hard times I was losing my Mum at the time with cancer, and through all of that I got bashed by my boyfriends family because they thought I was trying to make him a man when he was already a man. They’ve tried to say every rude thing about me just to bring me down. I lost my Mum on Christmas day 2 years ago. It was devastating because she was the only good role model our of my biological family out of 11 siblings who are criminals, drug addicts and alcoholics. I am the 3rd youngest and I changed my ways and it made my mum so happy. I was the last person to talk to her and the last person she spoke to. I cried for days and my boyfriend was so kind and gentle towards me. He treats me like an angel and I’m having a baby with him. I am 32 weeks pregnant and his family still puts me down and his sister adds me on facebook and then she blocks and deletes me for no reason because I told my old friend who is my boyfriends brother to leave me alone because she came to my door one day and started cursing and saying she hates me and told a whole bunch of people that she was going to beat me up? so one day she yelled out to me in a store and said "WAIT WAIT! Whats up" and I just looked at her confused and pissed off because she crossed the line and I don’t want to be apart of her life for the things she said and done. SO after I talked to her a tiny bit I said "Okay well I gotta go Bye!" and walked away – I went home and emailed her and said I didn’t get her and to leave me alone, and that our friendship is over. Anyways — my boyfriend hates her because she got his mom kicked out of her place which now she struggles…so she tried talking to him when he walked out of a store and a seen her talking away and then my boyfriend got in the truck and said why does that ***** feel the need to talk to me. & SO when I got home I emailed her and said "Okay leave us alone, we don’t want anything to do with you" — & she said "OH we’re family" & she just started swearing off and being the sh*t talker she is she said to me I need to grow up.
..Anyways I’m 32 weeks pregnant and I love my boyfriend so much. I just can’t handle his family drama because I have my biological family and thats WAY bigger drama than his family. My family put me through so much and I’ve escaped from them and changed my ways – yet It still hurts to see them in town passed out on the curb or staggering down the streets & they try and wave me down for a ride but I ignore them. & it hurts.
I’m thinking about leaving my boyfriend because my old friend insists still being loud and obnoxious and annoying to me & my boyfriend – & I don’t stand for any drug and alcohol nonsense. Yet – she has my boyfriends brother and sister and sisters boyfriend & mother wrapped around her finger so now they all hate me, they all ignore me and my boyfriend and they blocked our number on their phone (his sister) & they fnger us when they see us in town.
..SO I just want to make my boyfriends life a bit easier and leave. I want to cry so bad right now because I feel pretty lost at the moment.
& She says "We’re FAMILY" — Clearly we are not. I ignore my biological family — & I don’t call them my family in the first place. Because family shouldn’t have to invovle drugs and alcohol and DRAMA. I mean to a certain extend there will always be sad moments and ups and downs, however my boyfriends brothers girlfriend is just WAY too much for me. & she just can’t seem to get that in her head. Not to mention I don’t even think my boyfriends brother is going out with her anymore because I seen her kissing another guy in town? so who knows. She still chooses to come around and be loud and annoying & clingy.
You have been through so much in your life and the fact that you are still standing there afterwards shows to me you are nothing short of a strong person who knows what she wants in life. be proud of that.
Now I can understand your pain with what this so called friend is doing to you and your boyfriend, but in reality I feel leaving your boyfriend would add to the pain, not just for you, but for him. You’ve already stated you love him, and everything about him. And you left your own family behind (of which I am sorry too that it’s been so rough for you) ready to move on. It looks like it may be down to your boyfriend now to make the decision on behalf of his relationship with his own family. It’s hard to let go of in terms of old friends, but some people can turn ugly, so let this pissant of a friend go and talk to your boyfriend about his family issues. I wish I could say things would turn out fine, and hope that he makes the smart move in taking you and your unborn child away from the madness. You both already know what you want and your adults now why let their poor judgement control you? It’s sad his family has become so easily swayed but they are adults as far as I know and need to grow up and figure out the real culprit- your old friend. As for her, well, her actions will bring her no favours. trust me.
Best of luck.
shazies_pad | Feb 12, 2010
I am soooooo very sorry to hear about all the drama you are going through right now. If you and your boyfriend really love each other and really want to make it work, why not stick together and just ditch everyone? Say forget the drama, move away and just raise your baby together? I’m very sure once the baby is born people are going to want to come around and be involved in your baby’s life and hopefully after your childs birth they will all shape their act.
You dont want to raise a child in that environment, but do you really think it would be best leaving your baby’s father and raising the child on your own? Right now you need to focus on what is best for you and your baby. If it means you and your boyfriend packing your stuff and leaving the drama behind you then do it.
You may also want to have a face to face conversation with his family and tell them you know what I want to drop all the things of the past and just move forward and have a great life for my child. If they are mature enough to handle the situation, they will understand and hopefully drop everything and just try to be happy for you and your husband and be involved in your baby’s life.
Good luck to you! I hope everything works out good in the end.
mvm22 | Feb 12, 2010
oh girl, i have been where you are…. first off, i am so sorry for the loss of your mom, thats not easy. when my hubby and i got married, his brothers were mad and didnt like me. he used to party with them, and when we got together, he stopped. i never asked him to stop but he said he has more important things to do, with me things like that. they think i "made" him stop all the nonsense. no, he just grew up. its not his fault they are still children stuck in grown mens bodies. they have a huge ego and treat thier wives like crap. a couple years ago, i found out that they had even gone as far as calling his mother and asking how to get him out of this situation. i was hurt, but even more than that, i was mad. i really thought about just letting his family win. but, i decided we had something too good to let go over a couple of jealous family members. and im glad i stayed. we are really very happy. as far as my family, i was so glad to get away from the abuse and stress i endured there growing up and even in to my early 20s. i guess what im saying is, especially with you being 32 weeks pregnant, dont let them take a good thing away from you. be better than that. just let it slide off your back and in time, they will see it doesnt bother you anymore and stop. everything will be ok. keep your head up and your confidence strong. good luck to you, and God bless
mom of 4 boys | Feb 12, 2010
Wow, I’m so sorry about your mum and all of this.
Anyways, your boyfriends family seems jealous of how good you both are doing. They might not be able to pull themselves out of their troubled lifestyles but you and your boyfriend have.
Those people are not people you want to have around you anymore. You need to tell your boyfriend that it’s not healthy to be around them, because it’s not. All that stress on you when you are pregnant isn’t good. If you can, move. If not, stay away from them at least until they get their acts together and then MAYBE talk to them again.
That baby you are going to have is going to need its father. Talk to your boyfriend about all of this. If he insists on staying around his family then tell him you will leave with or without him for the sake of the baby.
Remember, you don’t deserve to be treated horribly. Nor does anyone else.
I hope everything works out for you :’)
Skyy | Feb 12, 2010
My advice to you is not to associate with his family. Let him spend time with them by himself if he wants to. I’m really not sure what’s happening with you guys but it would probably be best that you moved out of the area if you can because you have problems with your family too. I’m not sure why you would break-up with your boyfriend because of them unless you want too. You should talk to your boyfriend about the situation and see what he feels about it. You can’t control the people around you including family but you can control the people you’re around. which means distancing yourself. if his sister block your number, fine. Let your boyfriend deal with his family.
evaaan!! | Feb 12, 2010